Books by David Bryan Smith
Relationship & Intimacy Books
Explore David Bryan Smith’s guides to communication, connection and intimacy. Browse twenty individual books and three complete-series editions.
The Romance Codex and the self-help and study-guide titles are general-audience. The Secrets and Mansplaining series further down are for adult readers 18+.
The Romance Codex
General-audience nonfiction for single men and women on dating, attraction and building a lasting relationship. Not adult-explicit.
BOOK 1
The Market
Dating Apps, Real Value, and Why Men and Women Keep Missing Each Other
$4.99
BOOK 2
The Standoff
Why Women Can’t Find a Mate and Why Men Are Walking Away
$4.99
BOOK 3
The First Night
Sex on the First Date, Why We Wait, and What It Costs Us
$4.99
BOOK 4
Romance Is a Skill
How to Be Romantic (for Men and for Women) and Turn Dating into a Relationship
$4.99
BOOK 5
Love After Bedtime
Dating, Privacy, and Places to Be Together for Single Parents
$4.99
COMPLETE FIELD GUIDE · VOLUMES 1–5
The Romance Codex
The Complete Field Guide to Modern Love
$10.99
Self-Help, Study Guides & More
General-audience titles: self-help, guided meditation, poetry, a sales guide, a cat-training guide and an exam study guide. Not adult content.
STUDY GUIDE
Pass the Food Manager Exam Without the Panic
A calm, short study guide for the certified food protection manager exam
$4.99
Independent study guide. Not affiliated with or endorsed by any exam provider.
SELF-HELP · 10TH ANNIVERSARY EDITION
Playing it SAAFE
Five principles for living a better and happier life: Stretch, Affirm the Positive, Action, Find Your Purpose, Everyday Gratitude
$4.99
SELF-HELP · S.A.A.F.E. BOOK 2
Living S.A.A.F.E.
Twenty Ways to Beat Depression
$4.99
GUIDED MEDITATIONS
The God of Your Understanding
Guided Meditations for Everyday Life
$4.99
POETRY
No Butterflies in the Desert
Poems about love, regret, and starting over
$4.99
SALES · PERSUASION
Selling Using the Science of Suggestion
How a Hypnotist Guides Buyers to Yes
$4.99
PETS · TRAINING
Teach the Cat
Positive Training for Tricks & Everyday Companionship
$4.99
Adult readers 18+ only. The sections below are adult titles. Edition links open the full book details at Smut Cupboard, where checkout availability is shown.
Secrets of the Female Orgasm
BOOK 1
Secrets of the Female Orgasm
A Gentleman’s Guide to Women’s Sexuality
BOOK 2
More Secrets of the Female Orgasm
A Gentleman’s Guide to the Physical Language of Pleasure
BOOK 3
Even More Secrets of the Female Orgasm
A Gentleman’s Guide to Mind, Body, Emotion, and Arousal
BOOK 4
Daring Intimacy
A Gentleman’s Guide to Consensual Dominance and Submission
BOOK 5
Intimacy Toolkit
Techniques & Tools for Better Intimacy
Applied labs, multi-tool sequences, and couple playbooks — including the three-point technique / stacked sensation.
DELUXE · BOOKS 1–5
The Complete Five-Book Deluxe Edition
One collection spanning Books 1–5.
Mansplaining Men to Women
BOOK 1
Mansplaining Men to Women
What Modern Men Want, and How to Really Make Them Happy
Why “fine” means more than fine: what many modern men want most — to feel respected, noticed, and wanted — explained warmly, without blame.
$4.99
BOOK 2
The Care and Feeding of Your Man
Everyday Ways to Keep Him Well, Close, and Happy
The title is a joke. The care is real. Small, research-backed daily habits that keep the man you love well — and ask for the same care back.
$4.99
BOOK 3
The Kinky Man
Understanding Men's Fantasies, and Saying Yes, No, or Maybe Safely
18+ · Explicit adult content
A frank, shame-free guide to men’s fantasies: what they mean, how to respond, and how to negotiate consent, limits, and aftercare.
$4.99
COMPLETE SERIES · BOOKS 1–3
Mansplaining Men to Women: The Complete Series
All three books in one edition
18+ · Explicit adult content
All three books in one edition: who he is, how to keep him well, and what he dreams about — $10.99, about 27% off the three books bought separately.
$10.99