I’m just presenting some ideas that are interesting. To me its like the square and rectangle. A square is a rectangle but a rectangle is not always a square. Fantasy is hypnosis, but hypnosis is not always fantasy.

Here is something else .. you don’t always have to have your eyes closed to be in hypnosis. Remember the example of driving a car and not remembering the route to your destination.

Thanks for having a different view and letting me know about it. I try to have ideas instead of beliefs because ideas are so much easier to change. And, the scientist in me really likes to see evidence before I really take to an idea. One thing for sure is that no one knows you .. like you do. If you say you don’t fantasize, then I believe you. I think we both agree that the best sex starts with communication – both conscious and subconscious.

Have good sex ….

Dave

Fortunately, when you trigger an natural orgasm, you are not triggering this rape memory ….. unless somehow this was exciting for you which is doubtful. You are triggering the strongest previous pleasurable feeling, which will result from a previous pleasurable experience and so on until you reach that original pleasurable stimulus. When you get those #5s …. I’d place money your re triggering the first time you had a #5 in some capacity. Now that your thinking …. I’ll bet your remembering it more clearly. Men don’t seem to have this same detail oriented orgasm memory. For men, it can have just the opposite effect. A man can have a “Poor experience” or get ridiculed for not lasting long enough, not touching the right spot … etc … and have real performance anxiety set in and have trouble getting and keeping an erection during sex. Again … its this organic trigger of what happened then will happen now … if it was a good out come … yea …. if it was a bad out come … no desire or fearful to perform and Mr Happy is sad.

I also feel there is a learning curve with a partner where you learn what feels good and what triggers bad memories. There is also a lot of room for growth. Just because someone has had a #1 or #2 …. doesn’t mean they can’t jump to a #5 with a new partner. Often times this newness can heighten the arousal state along with touching new places. There is a big difference between a get up and go orgasm and a strong clitoral and or G-spot orgasm.

I must mention here the suggestion of trust. Trusting a partner means letting go and letting yourself open up. This is also true of a hypnotist. If there is no trust between a hypnotist and his person (I hate the word subject) the person will not go very deep. If there is trust, the person can go very deep. So to summ it up … if you trust your lover, you can go deeper in …. hypnosis/fantasy/relaxing and let it happen …what ever name you want to call it …. during sex and trigger pleasurable organic orgasm feelings that can help achieve reliable and intense orgasms.

Hope that clears up a few points.

Good question and good discussion. As to how i know so much … that is another blog post …

Thanks again for the comment

When a woman closes her eyes during orgasm, it is to remove the visual stimulus so that she can feel her body responses and sensations better. Removing the visual stimulus allows her to focus in on her the other stimulus. It is that simple.

The thing is … as soon as you close your eyes, you are slipping into the Hypnoidal state of hypnosis. This is why you can shut out the visual stimulus. It’s not just a matter of closing your eyes and now you can’t see. For many more visually stimulated people, they can “see” with their eyes shut. They just imagine seeing it. It is the concentrated focus that tips the scale. You may not think that because you are not thinking about anyone particular person that you are not fantasizing. You may just call it “relaxing and enjoying the moment.” My point here is that this focus, puts us into the Hypnoidal state of hypnosis and intensifies the pleasure, especially if it reminds us of how we felt at another time when we were aroused. This connection is what I refer to as an organic post hypnotic erotic suggestion. Basically … because it felt good to be touched there before .. and now you are being touched there again …. it re-triggers the feeling of pleasure. I hope that makes sense. Not every touch feels that way. I will bet though that the most pleasurable touches have a history, and you can probably remember the first times you were touched that way and how it made you feel. You remember it so vividly because you were in this Hypnoidal state of hypnosis when the erotic suggestion/feeling occurred. This allows us all to recreate this feeling. My point is really not that we all fantasize during sex .. my point is that during good sex .. we use these erotic triggers, slip into the Hypnoidal state of hypnosis and have powerful orgasms. People who don’t use this tool may or may not climax during sex at all. They may not have formed these organic post hypnotic triggers. those who have can climax faster, better and more consistently and often … they just have a better sex life and are happier.

Thanks for the comment …. it is an interesting discussion

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